Hello to All You Would-be Mums!


Welcome to one and all.

I’m a loving mum who has deliberately chosen the gender of her baby (with my husband’s mutual consent also I might add).

In the same way as other would-be mums out it took time to get the correct information to get pregnant with first a girl and then a boy (we wanted only 2 kids and wanted one of each).

My Research into Choosing My Baby’s Gender

To be able to do this successfully it required a long investment of time to shift through the bad information to get to the good information.

me pregnantWe simply couldn’t afford to pay for medical treatment so I had to learn how to do it naturally.

Yet, when I chose (or me and my significant other chose) to have 2 children we likewise chose to pick the gender of our children.

I’ve completed a great deal of research into this subject. What did I discover?

My Discoveries

Well with restorative science you can nearly ensure the sex of your youngster . However e prepared to pay a pretty penny and to lose all privacy into the bargain.

What I found is that you can utilize common means (home cures you might call them) to help you pick the sex your yet-to-be-born baby.

These strategies are fool-proof but rather they do have a high rate of success.

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Choosing My Baby’s Gender

Did they work for me?

Truly they did. And they worked both times.

I hope what I share with you will work for you as well.

Best of luck in your quest for a new baby.

How To Have A Girl – The Most Popular Methods

How to get pregnant with girl

Have you been trying to have a girl but with little success? If yes, then you’re in luck. I’m going to share with you the most popular (and most successful) methods for conceiving a little girl. Some of these methods might not be considered scientific but many people (me included) swear by them so they are sure will increase the chances of getting a baby girl.

Some of the things you are going to learn about include:


There are simple methods that have been found to increase the chances of conceiving a girl significantly.

how to conceive a girlIt is common knowledge that the man’s semen contains millions of sperm cells, one of which is responsible for fertilization of the female egg.

Each sperm cell might contain either the X or Y chromosome.

Fertilization of the egg by a sperm cell containing X chromosome leads to the conception of a girl while a Y chromosome leads to the conception of a boy.

Natural Strategies for Child Gender Selection

The following are some strategies you can use to naturally increase the chances of the egg being fertilized by a sperm cell with an X chromosome:

a. Understand your ovulation cycle. You can create a chart indicating the days of the months during which you experience occasions such as ovulation and monthly periods.

After you know this, you will increase your chances of conceiving a girl by first, having sexual contact with your husband within four days to when you will be ovulating.

child gender selection methodsThe cells with Y chromosomes have a shorter lifespan compared to those with X chromosomes, and therefore they will die and leave the cells with Y chromosomes to fertilize the egg when you start to ovulate.

Secondly, you should ensure that you have sex every day after your monthly periods have stopped.

This strategy can be used when you are not sure when you will begin to ovulate next. The cells with X chromosomes, having a longer lifespan, will then always be available in case the ovaries start to release eggs so that ovulation can take place.

b. Try to achieve lower vaginal pH. Sperm cells carrying X chromosomes are known to survive longer in acidic conditions than in alkaline surroundings.

You can, therefore, eat a diet that helps to lower body and vaginal pH for better chances of conceiving a girl.

Examples of foods to consume are fruits and leafy vegetables.


When you want to conceive a girl using this method, you should consult a doctor who can then recommend an artificial insemination procedure.

how to conceive a girl -its a girlDuring this procedure, your husband’s semen will be taken and kept in conditions which do not favor the sperm cells with Y chromosomes.

The semen will then be introduced directly into your uterus or fallopian tubes to allow for fertilization.


First, you will need to understand how to calculate your lunar age. You can then use the Chinese conception chart to calculate a future day when the lunar age coincides with a girl-conceiving period.

You can then have sex on those days when you expect to conceive a girl.


how to select baby gender - its a boyIf the case is that you want to have boy, you should have sex on the days during which you are ovulating because the sperm cells with Y chromosomes travel faster and one is likely to fertilize the egg first.

In case you have been wondering about how to have a girl or even a boy, the above strategies will go a long way in making your dream come true. The results might not be readily forthcoming, but the chances are increased.

How to Conceive a Boy

its a boy

Traditionally it has always been believed that conceiving a boy or girl is something humans have no control over as it is the handwork of God. However, research studies and various debates tend to identify various ways which can stack the odds of one conceiving a child of given sex.

I am also living proof that gender selection before conception (or more accurately before and during conception) is possible – I had a girl and a boy by choice!

It all boils down to aspects such as sperm cell resilience and conception process but how can you be certain that these recommendations will help you get a baby boy or girl without having to resort to expensive doctor clinics.

How to Have a Boy

Well, there is no harm in trying as long as they do not interfere with your health or natural conception.

how to have a boyIf you have been looking natural ways to conceive a boy these you will find these tips viable.

To have a boy (or a girl for that matter) you must understand the characteristics of sperm cells.

Research studies have shown than the male sperm cells (those containing Y chromosomes) are less resilient than the female cells (those containing X chromosomes).

Male Sperm is Weaker

The male sperm cell swims faster and dies off within 2-3 days.

They are affected by acidic environments and will struggle to compete against female sperm cells.

Sex position dictates how deep a man can penetrate the woman during intercourse.

Sex positions such as “doggy style”, standing sex and  straddling provide the best chance for deep penetration which is recommended if you want to have a boy.

sperm reaching eggWhen a man orgasms deep inside the vagina, the male sperm cells can get a head start needed to reach and fertilize the egg before female sperm cells.

You can go for the opposite (shallow penetration orgasm) which is the recommendation for those seeking to conceive a girl naturally.

The male cells will be slowed down and eventually die before reaching the egg.

Ovulation cycle

As aforementioned, the male sperm cell is less resilient and dies quicker than the female cells. You therefore need to correctly time your ovulation if you want a boy.

The best approach is to have intercourse a few hours (preferably less than 30) to your menses.

Those who want to learn how to conceive a boy naturally often see timing as the most viable approach.

Since male sperm cells die within 3 days, having intercourse within 1 day to menses increases the chances of having a boy.

eep penetration is best for conceiving a boy

Female orgasm and diet

Some research studies indicate that having orgasm can boost your odds of conceiving a boy child.

Female orgasm is known to release alkaline secretions that boost the longevity of male sperm cells. It is therefore recommendable to orgasm before your partner to increase your chances of conceiving a boy child.

You can also take diet that increases alkaline formation. This includes foods rich in calcium, magnesium, sodium and potassium.

This will reduce the acidity of the vagina and give the male sperm cells the boost needed to swim through to the egg.


While the above suggestions cannot be ascertained, they are backed by reasonable science that reflects at the characteristics of male and female sperm cells.

They can be used to improve the odds of getting a boy or tweaked to suit the conception of a girl.

You can learn more about natural conception using the Chinese Calendar or a boy for that matter.

However, a sure way would be to go scientific by using the preferred sperm cells (male or female) to fertilize the egg through insemination.