Hello to All You Would-be Mums!


Welcome to one and all.

I’m a loving mum who has deliberately chosen the gender of her baby (with my husband’s mutual consent also I might add).

In the same way as other would-be mums out it took time to get the correct information to get pregnant with first a girl and then a boy (we wanted only 2 kids and wanted one of each).

My Research into Choosing My Baby’s Gender

To be able to do this successfully it required a long investment of time to shift through the bad information to get to the good information.

me pregnantWe simply couldn’t afford to pay for medical treatment so I had to learn how to do it naturally.

Yet, when I chose (or me and my significant other chose) to have 2 children we likewise chose to pick the gender of our children.

I’ve completed a great deal of research into this subject. What did I discover?

My Discoveries

Well with restorative science you can nearly ensure the sex of your youngster . However e prepared to pay a pretty penny and to lose all privacy into the bargain.

What I found is that you can utilize common means (home cures you might call them) to help you pick the sex your yet-to-be-born baby.

These strategies are fool-proof but rather they do have a high rate of success.

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Choosing My Baby’s Gender

Did they work for me?

Truly they did. And they worked both times.

I hope what I share with you will work for you as well.

Best of luck in your quest for a new baby.

How to Choose Your Child’s Gender Using the Chinese Calendar

You can help improve your chances of having either a boy or a girl by several different methodologies. Cultures around the world have found that eating certain foods, particular physical behavior, the position of conception, and even the day on which you try to conceive all play a part in a baby’s gender.

One method is the use of the Chinese Calendar. As old as the Qing Dynasty from 1644-1911 AD, this Chinese calendar has been used to predict the sex of several different children by using your age and the day on which you wish to conceive. If you want to know how to conceive a girl using the Chinese calendar, check out the information below.

Chinese Calendar for Gender prediction

What is the Chinese Calendar

This ancient form of predicted conception is deeply engrained in Chinese culture and heritage, using the standard Chinese lunar Calendar, the baby calendar or gender calendar determines the sex of the baby all with about a 50% success rate.

The calendar was originally designed for the royal families of China and then captured during the Eight Nation Alliance by English soldiers. There are two forms of the calendar, one generic and one more detailed.

The generic version uses the age of the mother in conjunction with the month the mother conceives. The more detailed calendar will predict the sex of the baby down to the day using the same information.

Both can predict the sex of an un-conceived and unborn baby.

Is It Accurate?

The calendar uses the Chinese lunar calendar, yin and yang, the five elements, the eight diagram, among many other ways of predicting the baby’s gender.

Because it has a more substantial and tested place in history, it has is more reliable than other forms of prediction tools.

Statistics vary, but the prediction rate of the calendar is up to 70% as reported by Doctors and Scientists. However, it is not entirely full proof or as reliable as other medical methods.

Does It Work?

Several scientists and doctors have studied how to conceive a girl using the Chinese calendar. In some instances, the calendar proved to be accurate, but other measures were taken into account such as diet and physical activity.

70% success rateThose who have used the chart with success state that it is imperative to use the correct chart when trying to make your prediction.

There are several different flawed charts which do not use the full Chinese Baby Chart method or elements. For this reason, they often do not predict correctly.

One of the best websites to use is: www.chinesegenderchart.info. Several contest that this website has as close to the original prediction chart as possible.

The second piece of advice that is often provided is to make sure to use your lunar age with the chart. Your lunar age is determined by the lunar calendar and is not your real age.

A gender calculator (found at the website mentioned above) will help you to calculate your real lunar age and give you a more accurate reading.

This is one of many natural ways for selecting the gender of your baby.

Home Remedies for Conceiving a Girl

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How you ever wondered about how to have a girl naturally? If you have, then it is time for you to learn about some of the tips that can be used.

The conception of a girl occurs when a single sperm cell which holds an X chromosome fertilizes the ovum before the cells containing Y chromosomes get there.

Fertilization by a sperm cell containing Y chromosomes leads to the conception of a boy. With this in mind, we are going to look at the following topics:


The sperm cells which contain Y chromosomes tend to move faster than those with X chromosomes when deposited inside your body. This means that they reach the eggs faster.

However, their X counterparts move slower than them but have a longer lifespan.

They can live inside the uterus and fallopian tube for two days more than the Y cells can manage. Therefore, the following are some natural methods that can be used to conceive a girl:

a. Establish your ovulation cycle and create a chart where possible. Using the chart, you can identify the day when you expect to begin ovulating.

Make sure that you begin to engage in sex about five days before you start ovulating.

This ensures that the sperm cells containing X chromosomes will always be present inside your uterus and fallopian tubes and therefore the chances of conceiving a girl will be boosted.

b. Having sex regularly from the day your menstruation comes to an end. When you do this, the Y sperm cells quickly get to the uterus and fallopian tube, but they do not find any eggs to fertilize.

However, the X cells take time to reach the fertilization sites, but they can survive for a long time until the time when you begin to ovulate again so that they fertilize the ova.

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You can also choose to use the method of artificial insemination which involves the introduction of semen into the uterus and fallopian tubes using hospital equipment.

When you ask your doctor to help inseminate with sperm cells that can increase chances for the conception of a girl, the doctor will make it happen.

This is possible because semen can be harvested from your spouse and put under conditions which are good for X sperm cells but unfavorable for Y cells. When this semen is introduced into your reproductive system, you will have better chances of conceiving a girl.


Chinese Birth Chart for Gender SelectionThis method can be a bit complicated because of the calculations involved, but there is a Chinese conception chart that can guide you.

You can establish your lunar age according to the instructions.

It will then be your guide when you want to choose a favorable period when you are likely to conceive a girl according to the chart. You can, therefore, have sex during those days indicated.


In case your problem is having a boy, you can use methods which are favorable for allowing the sperm cells with Y chromosomes to reach the fertilization sites quickly.

You can start having sex at the onset of your ovulation process so that the Y cells can find an egg to fertilize before their lifespan runs out.

The methods described above might seem far-fetched, but they can be instrumental in achieving the desired results.

You can try them regularly to ensure that you increase the chance of getting the child of a gender you wish to get.